I have a question for you today: what should we do? On this particular day, I’m going to do something a little bit different from what I normally do, which is to give you tips on how to handle your romantic relationships. I am not really trying to “teach” anything; rather, I am just going to share some questions on the ways in which men and women interact to one another. Because of the potentially catastrophic outcomes and immense possibilities that may be lost as a consequence of men and women not being able to connect to one another, this is an essential issue to discuss. When it comes to a relationship, have you ever received “mixed messages”? Check out the video for this week to participate in a conversation. The act of connecting to another person may have a wide range of meanings. How you listen, how you say, how you behave, how you empathize, and how you handle conflicts are all examples of how it might be interpreted in the context of your relationship. I could go on and on with this list. Do you want to strengthen your connection with your partner? If so, you need to learn how to relate to them appropriately. It is my goal that by posing these questions on ways in which men and women might improve their relationships with one another, you will share your responses and/or your questions with me so that we can continue to work on this issues together in the future. The majority of the inquiries that I receive from men and women on how to relate to one another in a relationship are the same. One of the things that I hear often from women is, “Men are enigmatic; how can I know what they are thinking and feeling?” The phrase “women are enigmatic, how can I know what they’re thinking and feeling?” is something that I often hear from males. There are, without a doubt, distinctions between men and women based on their gender, but beyond that, we are all human. We do not want to be hurt (although I must note that if you do not want to be harmed, you should avoid having any kind of relationship with anybody)! I have a few questions for you today, and they are as follows: What are some ways in which we might collaborate to safely break down barriers, limits, and walls in order to begin the process of learning how to interact to each other outside the confines of gender? How can we enhance the level of peace and harmony that exists between the sexes? What is the best way to identify and conquer the anxiety that arises from the “mixed signals” that we have all received in our relationships throughout the course of our lives? A excellent illustration of this would be someone who vanishes without a trace after a date that you thought was amazing. Make sure you keep in mind that I do not possess the solutions or relationship advise. I am here to serve as your relationship architect and to ask you question after question! I am requesting your assistance, comments, ideas, and questions at this time. I have high hopes that you will be able to share your experience with me, and that by working together, we will be able to find out how men and women may improve their relationships with one another.